You are right about that, Marilyn, it sometimes IS hard to decipher the tone of written words. Maybe I took the tone wrong? It's not like me to be disagreeable by nature, so apologize if I came off that way.

And now I am wondering---Anna, are you married? I may have missed the answer in your posts--sorry if I did-- this thread is getting long. It just occurred to me that maybe you are not married, and so having a husband in this situation might not even be relevant.. It's none on my business, and you certainly don't need to answer my question--its just a few other posters mentioned how they couldn't do this particular job, because of how their DH's might feel... I can certainly see that! Mine would be jealous and would not let me do this. He'd only want me to talk dirty to him! ;-P