I just don't even know how to write this. Our family has been through so much these last few years. Losing Faith, almost divorcing now this. However, God is good, all the time.

On September 3, 2011, God called our sweet Justin home to be with Him. We have lost our dear sweet boy. The words are so hard to write and the grief is so new. Please know that God has sustained us and He prepared us in ways that were not apparent until now. Our lives will never be the same, and those of you who have lost a child know what I mean.

There is an article about the accident and the impact he made in Va. in a very short time and I will post that link some other time. I just wanted to share with you.

Melissa

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Melissa

I am sorry for your loss.

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Sam

Momrajum - I am so very sorry for you loss.

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I'm so very sorry for your loss.
You will be in my prayers.
Judy

Oh, Melissa, my heart breaks for you. I can't imagine. I'll keep you in my prayers.

I am so sorry for you and your family

I pray that God will keep you in his hands.

Adding my thoughts going out to you. Know that when you hit the bottom, you can't go any further down. The only way is up. It will take time, but you are a survivor and a real person and you will come back up. My best to you momrajum.

dl

There's no greater grief than losing a child. I can tell you from personal experience that time will help. Lots of time. So very sorry for what you're going through.

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I am so very, very sorry Melissa. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. <3

Melissa, you've been in my thoughts and prayers, and will continue to be. :'-(

I'm so sorry. This is something no one should ever have to face. My thoughts are with you.

just sending love and prayers right now.

X

I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers.

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Cecilia

"We must love them both--those whose opinions we share and those whose opinions we reject. For both have labored in the search for truth, and both have helped us in the finding of it."
Saint Thomas Aquinas

Melissa, I am so sorry for your family's loss

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Now I can strangle it

omgosh I can't imagine what you are going thru, but I will continue to pray for your family and keep you all in my thoughts.

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Crap might separate them,
But they always come back together.

My sincere condolences...You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Melissa,


I know that this is a time where words are insufficient to describe the depth of my feelings this morning when I read your post. I know that there is no substitute for your darling boy, but I hope that the knowledge that I stand with you in the dark and the light and hold you in my thoughts and prayers will give you some measure of comfort or strength whenever you need it. Many thoughts and prayers....my heart is breaking for you.

usnamom
Nita

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We miss you, sweet brother
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I too lost a child 28 years ago, he was only 7 months, he only lived for 3 hours. Melissa from one mom to another I cannot even imagine. I am sincerely , so sincerely sorry about this .May God bless you and your entire family...sincere prayers, hugs and peace. May you find comfort in God.........Catherine

Oh, dear. I am at work crying with you right now. I am so verry sorry for your pain. You have been through so much. I remember how kind you were when I lost my student.

I don't have the right words, but I am here if you need to talk, or anything else. I will send you my number in a PM.

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I am so sorry for your loss.

There are no words, the best I can do is offer my sincerest of condolences and my prayers.

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Melissa, I'm so, so sorry. You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers. I'm so sorry for your loss.

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Kim

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

I'm very sorry. I can't imagine how painful this must be for you.

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"I may not have gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I intended to be."

My deepest condolences. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

So sorry to read of your loss. You have incredible strength and that will sustain you.

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I know there are no words that can comfort you. You are in my thoughts during this most difficult of times.

Thank you all for your kind words. nightolwrn....I remember you talking about going through your sons things after you lost him.....I remember wondering how in the world does a mother do that? Now I know. You just do. Life goes on and things need to be done.

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Melissa

Yes, you just do.

Please accept my condolences, and know that your loving memories of your son will live forever in your heart. ♥

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Do not value the things you have in your life,
but value who you have in your life!

Again, thank you all for your kind words. And those that have reached out privately, it means a lot to me, it really does. Sometimes "strangers" are easier to deal with than people irl.

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Melissa

I am so very sorry for the tragic loss of your beloved son, and send sincere condolences to you and your family.

Melissa I am so sorry for your loss. God blessed you with his presence and I hope you have many memories to keep him alive for you.
Prayers.
Anna

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Melissa, I just wandered onto the board and saw this. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I will hold you in my thoughts and prayers.

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I am so sorry

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Melissa, it's been days since I have checked in. I just read this and I wanted to tell you that I am so sorry for your loss. No words can make it better and I am not really sure what to say, but know that I am praying for you to have the strength to make it through this and I am praying for your family.

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So sorry for your loss.......

my sweet boy....check it out.

Justin McCray : Your Man - YouTube

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Melissa

Oh my gosh. I'm so very very sorry to read this. I can't imagine any grief greater than losing a child. What a handsome man he is~thanks for posting his video.

Again, so very sorry.

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