
Sorry for the delay in this response. When I first read this I was overwhelmed with all the hurt, pain and confusion that this situation causes. Enduring such a loss is a hurt so deep it can not be put into words. It's a dark, dark place during the grieving process. My own experience flooded back over me and I had to regroup before posting.
Of course I don't know your family, but when I went through the loss and burial of our twins, I was afraid at one point I was never going to be normal again. My faith, a loving supportive husband and family reaching out to and for help (like you did here) brought me through it eventually.
You most certainly have our prayers and utmost condolences for this heart breaking event in their lives.
Thank you for allowing us to do the only thing we can do right now, praying. "Those" prayers carried us through when we were too shattered to do anything but cry when we bowed our heads.
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