Here is the story: Man kills wife, then himself in Murrieta - The Californian / North County Times -


I am friends with the Finney family (brother to Aaron). We are not super close but my kids play with the cousins of these poor kids. The Finneys are completely shaken (as you would expect). Aaron lived with my friend for a few months and seemed like a wierd, but not crazy, person. I have given the family a teddy bear basket and offered my support but I do not know what else I can do. My kids are very close to this family.

Suggestions?

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TLJ ~ Where opinions are encouraged, not deleted

You laugh at me because I am different,
I laugh at you because you are all the same.

Your mind is like a parachute, it only works when it is open.

HOW COW!!! I would say just be there for them for the long haul.....most ppl will be jumping all over them at first and then when the courts and things start to drag on ppl will start dropping like flies. Thats the only advice I can give you other than they will be in my prayers tonight!

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Vicki


TLJ Women united in Spirit!

YIKES! My cousin's live in Murrieta! So glad the kids weren't killed along with the mom although they will have a VERY rough road ahead

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I'm so sorry for the lost of your childrens friends mother. How very sad. I'll keep these families in my thoughts.

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That is horrendous. I am so sorry for the kids and the other family members.

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It is a small world. I live in Murrieta and my children attend the same school as the middle boy. This came on the heels of all that went down last week with the Virginia Tech shootings and then a bomb threat at one of our high schools. We are attending a candlelight vigil tomorrow night and will pray for all.

I am so sorry for the kids and the other family members, I will keep them in my thoughts and prayers.

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how sad.. I would just tell them if there was anything you could do... I can't even imagine.

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Too many people spend money they haven't earned to buy things they don't want, to impress people they don't like. - Will Rogers

What a horrible thing for the kids and family to have to live with. mrk11118 's advice seems about perfect to me.