A few months ago, I started to feel 'really' depressed, I honestly think I was nearing a breakdown. Somehow, I picked myself up and decided that I needed to go out and get a job, etc and do better for myself. Anyway, I did. I got a job, worked really hard at first and then things seem to settle in (transition wise, I hadnt worked in 6 years as I have three kids) My schedule worked out perfectly. the pay wasn't the best, but I was ok because of the schedule flexibility. Then last week, my boss only partially paid me, which upset me, but promised that it would be included on this weeks check. Well Monday is payday, I didn't get paid, asked if I could wait til Wed, Wed comes and no check, then I worked yesterday as usual, then last night, I get an email saying that business was slow, etc, etc and that I was being laid off until June or longer. But I could get my paycheck today.

I am just floored! First with the partial payment of last week, then not gettng paid on time this week, then to let me work all day without saying a word until I get home and check my email to tell me that work is slow! AND on top of that, the email made it sound and I quote "it's going to be like a mini vacation" since you're still gonna be collecting checks (since pay periods are behind)........

Now, I don't want to backslide into that funky depression. But money is sooooo tight right now. I can't afford a babysitter *(which is why flexibility above was nice) and have no family or friends that can help out. I HATE worrying about money! I guess I just feel like I was being used by the job above, fearful that I will not collect the money due to me, what I will do about a job, etc, etc, etc. Why do people think that they can treat you that way? I know part of it is my fault, as I am a very trusting soul, and I shouldn't have let them get away with only partially paying me to start with.

I don't know, I am just upset Sorry for venting, but I guess it's better to let it out than hold it in.

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So sorry that happened. I would go collect my check on the next payday. If ALL your money isn't there, I would demand it and if they don't give it to you, seek an attorney. I am sure that there are others here more suited to answer your question so hopefully they chime in.

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Can you collect unemployment.....listen to me I haven't worked outside the home in 9 years....but maybe that could help til a better job comes along. I would get all my money NOW! If you aren't there everyday they are probably going to be less likely to pay up.

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TLJ Women united in Spirit!

Hey!! From someone who battles depression on a daily basis... I'm here for you. My email is fletchersmom@yahoo.com. When my dd was born we had zero money.. so until I could go back to work I searched the internet high and low for freebie stuff. That way I had something to look forward, and it didn't cost anything.

I too deal with depression. I am here for you!!
jbrn0614@yahoo.com is my e mail address and if you e mail me there I can give you my work e mail and I will be there all day tomorrow doing alot of nothing!!!!!!

I am in tears now. You guys are the most thoughtful, kind, caring folks I have socialized with. I can't believe the kind words, the offers of your own private emails, everything. ~ This has made me feel soooo loved. Thank you. It does help to know that I am not 'alone', ya know? Thank you all so much!!! I am going to keep updating everyone and if I need to email, I will, I promise. I don't want to fall back in to that serious slump again, so now I know if I need to talk or reach for help, I am going to do it. I can't keep stuff all bottled up cause I know I will explode. . . . .I can't say thank you enough. I feel so good right now, just from these posts. Thank you...

Carrie: You weren't sounding pushy. I honestly read it as encouragement and I appreciate it.

Today, After my post, I made myself eat. I took a shower. I got out my resumes and applied for a few jobs and even made some calls. While I was on my way to pick up my paycheck, I got a phone call back requesting an interview!!! I got my check, came home, hubby picked up a pizza for dinner as he knew I wasn't in the best of moods Spent a couple hours with my kids after dinner and just checked in here and seen this beautiful post This has really helped. At least I don't feel so 'hopeless'. Thank you all and I will be leaning on yall......THANK YOU!! (wiping my tears)

(((HUGS))) to ALL of you!

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Oh yea, what's this about B12? Can you feel me in on that. I have been with depression/anxiety/panic attacks for years. I do pretty well with my meds, but ya know how it goes. Please tell me about this B12 and B6. I certainly appreciate it.

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Aside from medications and things, just do your best to take joy and happiness in every little thing you can: the sun(set)(rise); your morning coffee/tea; rain on your nose; your family; chocolate melting on your tongue.

About your job you really need to talk to your boss in a nonconfrontational manner (if you indtend to stay there or even someday get the $$$ owed you) and find out what happened and explain that you really cannot afford to work unless you earn XXXX per XXX and you have to be able to count on it.

You should find some other work whether or not you think there is a chance of getting paid. If you get juked contact the Labor Bureau in your state and you could very well get paid.

Respect yourself and demand the same from employers.

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The political system is broke and it's a joke.

thank you and I am gonna check em out today!

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email is moserlara@yahoo.com

Good luck with the interview.

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Laura
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Can I ask exactly how much you take?

Is it a B complex that you take?

Thanks.

Private Message me if you want me to give you advice on your resume...
((suffering from corp burn out)) Can still give great advice!

Here is what I would do ASAP!

1. Have a piece of chocolate (this will make you feel better...TRUST ME)

2. Go get your check! ( IMO, I know, I battle depression and what's worse than not getting your check? Telling yourself your MAD at yourself for NOT having the BALLS to stick up for yourself and what's right..your self esteem needs you to right now)

3. Have a piece of chocolate and celebrate for being you!! ;D