Ok, I see the mall thread is gone now. I didn't think it was "bad" and didn't really see anyone insulting anyone else. The last post I saw was from MOMNY40 who said we can't watch our kids 24/7.

Did someone report the thread or did the mods pull it on their own? I just want to know so I can try to figure out what to say or not say so threads don't get yanked.

Thanks.

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AllinAugust-

I wasn't logged on last night but I do think that the thread was turning personal; at least one member was being questioned more than once on the trust that she placed in her daughter. At least that's my take on it. I believe there is a zero tolerance on personal attacks in the cafe.

cj/

Well, hopefully a mod will clarify. I see lots of things that can be classified as "personal attacks" in many of the threads. Just wish we could have a discussion on here, even have disagreements. This gets us thinking about things, IMO.

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I closed the thread for 2 reasons, One there were some personal attacks and 2 there were some racist remarks and these will not be tolerated any longer. There have been some posts about race on here that have deeply hurt some of our members here.

As of now I will delete anything that I believe to be racist.