I just need to vent a bit....

OK so like I was talking to this guy for about 2 months...NOT dating nothing serious...really just hung out maybe like 5-6 times ,called , emailed....I would even consider it a relationship, never slept with the man, only kissed him breifly (quick peck goodnight) Anyways, a few weeks ago I realized he was a mister no it all and was just a huge turn off for me...I just HATED talking to him on the phone and didn't want to see him.

Anyways, about 2 weeks ago he started he was going to "spin off" my ebay selling business and do something very similar, something I PLANNED on doing eventually when I got more time or money since it was already about the same thing...He knew this plan. He saw what I did and I told him my full plan.....REally really gets me mad he would stoop that low and it showed his true character I thought....

So since then I been mading excuses not to see him...dont email him back for a day or so and not talk low on the phone when he called...Just to distance and maybe he would get the idea!! Anyways, long story short...I'll get to whats bugging me..Today he had the nerve to email me and ask about suppliers and I went off on him and more or less told him...that no I was not giong to train a future competitor and that if that was something he was going to do, he was going to have to learn on his own....

Anyways, it spun out of control and more or less this man turned EVIL.....I never personally attacked him or his stealing business ideas NOTHING but told him I wasn't interested in seeing him anymore and wasn't happy with the way he decided to start a business, since he knew that was my future plans....His last email was just PLAIN nasty telling me horrible things about he could see why my ex left me, why I had no real close friends besides family (he doesn't know a thing about my life...) horrible mom, and how I was ungrateful for he was always so nice to me!!! I was like HUH??? I'm not the one who is 40 unemployed never married living with my mommy.....*(I didn't say that to him...LOL all I said was all those nasty things make him feel better about himself??)

NOW, I didn't respond to his last email BUT I'm loosing faith in men here....what the world is wrong with them!!! They dont get there way and they start calling you names and blame EVERYTHING on you.....(made me have flash backs of dealing with my ex) I'm glad his true colors came out VERY early on in our friendship...I felt like I was being verbally attacked by BB8 Evil Dick via email!! OH Jen put up with that I never know!! Oh OH I need a drink!!!

Wow what a jerk.

As to what is wrong with men and losing faith - don't give up. Not all are like this. Just be careful with the types you involve yourself with and definitely be careful with what you share.

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I think most of the good men past 40 years of age are taken.The only ones left are those that are terrible with relationships and thats why they are still single.Unless you stumble on to a widow ,then you may have a chance.Thats just my experience with the over 40 dating.Good luck !

LOL...I am totally believing this!!! Good thing I dont NEED a relationship to be happy!! I look pretty young and normally dismiss the guys younger than me (i'm 34) my ex was 2 years younger than me....maybe I'll start checking out the late 20 something men...

you should have told him the best bidders are from Nigeria. And about guys and relationships , over 40 or under 40 it's the same thing .It's in our genes .

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I think it's good you get a tattoo that reflects your heritage. I'm adopted, so I'm getting one of a recycling bin.

I wouldn't lose faith in MEN....because it sounds like he is acting like a BIG GIRL!

Jettison this loser and be patient...Men are out there...and not all of of them are headcases.

I've heard good things about the online dating sites... Not sure specifically which ones are better than others.

As Kelliiiii said, don't lose faith in all MEN. The right one is still out there. You just haven't found him yet! When you least expect it, he'll be there. That seems to be the story that I hear a lot from my friends who have found a love into their 40's.

It is good that you have the attitude of not needing a man. That is why you saw the true colors of this man. Stay strong!