I am not Jewish and know nothing about the Jewish background. Have your children ever been invited to a Bar Mitzvah? How long does the ceremony and reception usually last. What is the best gift to give. I don't know the family and have never met the boy. Thank you.

The celebration lasts basically all day, its basically a mini wedding with no bride and a groom who is only 13...LOL. The best gift is MONEY!!!!!!!!!!!

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I think the number 18 is a lucky number if you are Jewish. So if you give money in any increment of 18 it would be good luck.

The number 18 represents Chai ('Life") - so money gifts are usually given in increments of 18 ($18; $36, etc.)

however, you do not have to give money - gift cards are very popular (to Gamestop, Blockbuster, Barnes & Noble, etc)

the service is in the morning - the invitation will say what time the service starts - there is usually a luncheon after the service; at my congregation, services begin at 9:30 and end about 12:15 then lunch is usually over about 1:00 - each congregation is a little different)

there is also usually an evening party.

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I am assuming your child has been invited. I have nothing to add...other than my two cents

How exciting for your child to experience something from another culture/religion

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