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Old 10-30-2007, 09:07 AM
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Do you think that this is appropriate for middle school aged kids?

There was a boy-girl birthday party with 6th graders from my kids' school. They played a game where one child was seated and had a blindfold on. Then, the party chaperone took the kids one by one and sat them on the blindfolded child's lap and he/she had to guess who was sitting on his/her lap.

Have you ever heard of this?



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Old 10-30-2007, 09:14 AM
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If the mother was there, she probably thought it was harmless fun. But I'm a big fan of personal space so I probably would not have liked it one bit. Why would they have had to sit on each other? We used to play a game where you had to close your eyes and someone would sit behind you and draw their name on your back using their finger. Then you had to guess who it was. So was this mother trying to get the blindfolded kid to guess the weight of the party attendants?? Some people....
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Old 10-30-2007, 09:17 AM
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um, no, never heard of that one. I would not like that one, with it being boys and girls. When you are trying to guess what (or who) something or someone is, you "feel" it. Um, NOPE!!!

I would not do that at my child's party.
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Old 10-30-2007, 09:17 AM
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I don't get it either...there are so many things that I find wrong with this game. Weight differences being one of them. Boys having girls on their laps being another.

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Old 10-30-2007, 09:28 AM
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I think that "game" is highly inappropriate.
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Old 10-30-2007, 09:31 AM
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I have never heard of that....and no, I don't think I would want my kid "playing" it
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Old 10-30-2007, 09:32 AM
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I guess the Chaperone saw it as harmless fun, but I really find it inappropriate! You could easily "grab" something feeling around to figure out who it was.........
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Old 10-30-2007, 10:34 AM
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I think it is absolutely INAPPROPRIATE!!! I have a 6th grader and I would be VERY upset if my DD were involved in a game like that!
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Old 10-30-2007, 10:50 AM
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I would not care for it and I really don't think my DD would go for it either. I don't understand what purpose it serves?
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Old 10-30-2007, 10:54 AM
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Nothing was said about groping the person sitting on the child's lap.
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Old 10-30-2007, 11:42 AM
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It's a "NO-NO" in my opinion!
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NO way not approperiate for any age group IMO & I have one child in 7th grade & one in first I wo uldnt want either one playing it
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Old 10-30-2007, 04:47 PM
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I don't get it either...there are so many things that I find wrong with this game. Weight differences being one of them. Boys having girls on their laps being another.

Rebecca

Uh yeah, what she said.

I got a better idea. If there's quite a few kids, why can't one of them hide while a designated person leaves the room. When the person returns, they need to guess who is missing.
A bit more appropriate for preteens anyway.
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Old 10-30-2007, 05:25 PM
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Oh Hell NONONONONO!!
Sounds like the lame joke/comment of "sit on my lap and we'll talk about the first thing that comes up".
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Old 10-30-2007, 06:35 PM
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No, I've never heard of it.
No, I wouldn't like it at all if my child was at this party where they did this.
No, I would never do this at a party at our house.

Has anyone asked the parents why they were doing this? What purpose did it serve? ~Lisa
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Old 10-31-2007, 07:25 AM
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nope. dont sound like something I would have wanted my daughter playing either.
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Old 10-31-2007, 08:05 AM
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Oh Hell NONONONONO!!
Sounds like the lame joke/comment of "sit on my lap and we'll talk about the first thing that comes up".
Funny! That's what my husband said.



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Old 10-31-2007, 02:03 PM
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I have never heard of that and would be really upset if my DD was involved in this type of "game". My DD is also in 6th grade and she has never mentioned anything like this before.

BTW, I love the idea above of trying to figure out who is missing from the room. That would be a lot of fun for all ages.
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Old 10-31-2007, 02:58 PM
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I have never heard of this "game" but I wouldn't go for it.

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Old 10-31-2007, 03:13 PM
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Then, the party chaperone took the kids one by one and sat them on the blindfolded child's lap and he/she had to guess who was sitting on his/her lap.

I would be having a very pointed discussion with the "party chaperone" as well as the parents of the birthday child.
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