And a few people have said they voted Low due to lack of participation. I am curious, does the spouse know you feel this way?
I have a friend who does nothing but complain and moan about her husband not doing this or not doing that or being inconsiderate when it comes to her feelings. BUT she has NEVER ONCE told him how she feels or what she expects out of a partner. I truly think she married him because it was the next thing to do in her realtionship with him and she was getting to be 30 and felt time was running out for kids....
She also married him thinking that she could change him and when he wont change, she just frustrates herself. I feel really bad for people that "settle" like that...

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GO TONY!!!!!!!!!!! # 20!!!