On Saturday my BF got a call that this 92yr old woman who lives in his building was taken to the hospital because she was refusing to eat, couldn't talk, and the aide needed to put adult diapers on her because she said she couldn't tell when she had to use the bathroom and would just go whereever she was and her health aide felt it was best for her to go get checked by a doctor. This woman was very close with my BF and like a 2nd grandmother to him. The woman has no family, her only son died a few years back. We called the hospital and found out they were doing tests but she was ok. Saturday night I had a dream where I was sitting in a park talking with my best friend and grandmother (both are deceased) and in the distance I saw the woman my BF knows sitting on a bench. My grandma and friend told me to have my BF go see the woman and tell her that he will be ok and she can go. It woke me up and I told my BF about it, we called the hospital Sunday morning and were told they sent her home and all the tests came back ok. I haven't slept good since Saturday night, not because of the dream but because I am fighting another bad ear infection and the pain keeps waking me up. I am thinking the dream was meant for me to have him go give her the ok to go, but then another part of me is thinking I need sleep and its a crazy dream. What do you think of the dream? Do any of you know of any dream intruputation web sites?

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~~~~**Maryann**~~~~

I just got a firm grip on reality....
Now I can strangle it

Don't know of any websites, but I know I have had a few dreams that were similar, and I would have to go check on her, just for my own peace of mind.....Hope you are feeling better soon, and get a good nights sleep!

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I'm a flake, so please don't mind me, but between the content of the dream, and the fact that you're still thinking about it, I think it matters.

It seems common enough for people, and even animals, to hold on to life because they feel people here need them. Sometimes that's a good thing, when they heal and become healthy again. Sometimes it just extends something painful.

Your BF is the only contact this woman has, and she probably feels a lot of attachment to him. At the point where living becomes difficult , and most people are getting ready to leave, she probably still feels a commitment to someone who's been helping her. I think he needs to spend some time with her, make sure she's as comfortable as possible, and let her know he's doing well, and wants what's best for her. It's really hard to express some things, but if she knew he was doing fine, and well cared for, even without her worry, she'd probably feel a lot better.

You may be a bit sensitive, or being sick might put you in a state where your dreams seem more lucid. Either way, take the lesson you're being offered, and pay attention to to any dreams that stay with you.

I don't think you are flaky.

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Vicki


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