HI everyone
i need help, this is the situation

my fatherin law passed away at 50 two years ago, he was dating this 22 year old,

well needless to say, she was very clinging, and she kinda scared me, She was the type who didn't want to work, bad home life, just wanted to get out. we have not talked to her in over a year, we had to break all ties. she even tried to date my husbands uncle who is over 60

well she has a my space account, and i was told my 3year old and my husband's picture is on there. which scares me even more. i contacted my space by email, and told them they need to contact me with a 1-800 number, i want to walk them through this account, because i can't view it. and see if these pictures on there, and if they are i want them to be removed. or i will take legal action.

This girl is crazy, just what i want my 3 year olds and husbands picture on myspace. i don't want to contact the girl, then i never will get rid of her. Apparently she nots moving on.

so does anyone have advice, and my space's 1-800 number.

(plus things are getting removed from his grave, 2 new solar lights, and the only traces left are hers)

Did you think to contact her directly and ask her to remove them?
Maybe a phone call would be all it took...

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GO TONY!!!!!!!!!!! # 20!!!

if you contact her, she will start calling you everyday, plus she lies. so i wish it was that easy.
she wouldn't take the pictures off, she tells everyone that my son is her grandson, i am 28, she is 24. she was looking for a free ride. Me and my husband were afraid she was going to kidnapp my child, to have something that looked my father in law. The only reason i am concerned is that i know prediators are on my space, she is crazy enough to give out where she lives and where we live.

Is her MySpace account a private one or one that is open to anyone? If it's open to anyone, you can make an account for yourself (doesn't take but a few minutes) and then look her up yourself and see the pictures. She won't know you've even looked at them. If it's something you don't like or she's saying something that isn't true, then take it from there and contact MySpace. I honestly don't know what they'll be able to do for you. People post pictures everyday of other people on their account. If you make a big deal out of it, it may make more trouble for you with her and she may really try to mess up your lives. You were worried that other people may look at them, but if it's a private account, no one will be able to look at them except for the people on her 'friends list'.

Good luck with whatever you decide to do.

Just to clarify a point in case the OP doesn't fully understand Myspace.
Her page, if it is private means that only her friends can see the entire page, but anyone can view part of the page, it is plain white with just one photo, the screenname and date and a few other things. Even if you made a Myspace page you would not be able to view her page or pictures since it is "Friends Only" and you would have to become "friends" with her. So what does it look like when you view her page?

If however, when you look at her page you can see the entire page, comments, decorations and all, then you must have a Myspace Account (you don't have to be her "friend") in order to click the link that says "PICS". So as the above poster said, MAKE AN ACCOUNT. It's easy, don't give your real info and you can pretty much make a blank page for yourself...takes just a few minutes....BUT it gives you the opportunity then to go back while logged in an view her pics. IF you then see the offending picture......there are 3 links under each picture....
POST A COMMENT.......EMAIL THIS PICTURE.......REPORT THIS IMAGE

So you can report the image explaining it is of your underage child. They MAY respond. This is ONE idea.
But while you are on the site there are links at the bottom of the page and one of them is
CONTACT MYSPACE where you can contact them through that link. Try them both.

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hey her account is private,

thanks for everyones help, i don't want to make too big of deal, but if the pictures are there, i want them gone,
there is too many crazy people out there today, including her. My father in law died 2 years ago, she is still hanging on, they only dated for 3 months.

I hope my space emails me back soon.

Well, if her account is private, then only the people who are on her friends list can view it. If she's like a lot of people, she may have even forgotten those pictures are there.

BTW, how do you know they're still on there? If your FIL died 2 years ago, then that means these pictures are at least 2 years old? Just wondering. I'd let it go if you think bringing it up will cause more problems.

Can the person that told you the pictures are on there, go back on and click on the report picture button for you?

Good luck getting a response from Myspace when I and my one son were being stalked and harassed online through Myspace by this psychotic teenage girl who couldnt get it through her head neither I nor my then 20 yr old son wanted nothing to do with her because of what had transpired between her and my then 18 yr old son when she was just 13/14 (still not sure what her real age is) Myspace did nothing about the harassing emails, public blogs calling me all kinds of evil vile things, I had to get the local police department involved and they took care of it by contacting Myspace and her account was deleted, then she went on to make a fake profile of my son, sending vile comments to me as if she were him and then for the last 2 years she has accused me of stalking her and tried to cause all kinds of trouble legally Thank goodness the local police know she is mentally ill, but I hate when she takes photos off my Profile of me, my sons or DH and puts them on her current Myspace account and posts vile things or that I am her future MIL and I am a well you can imagine, the kicker Son she has the hots for has had no contact in 2 years and definitely none since he went to jail in November.

Myspace is NOT very responsive , I have reported 3 registered sex offenders from my area for having Myspace profiles in violation of their probation of no contact with minors and their friends lists are a haven of young girls and one is of young boys. These profiles still exist and have been reported more than 50 times by myself, DH and others.

Basically you are not going to get help from them about these photos if you are in that much fear for your families safety from her get a restraining order that includes her not being able to use your family pcitures. They dont have a 800 number or Customer service for the average Joes to call to report things only a phone nuymber for Law Enforcemnt officials to contact them.

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~ Christine ~
Grammie to Trinity Lorayne Jean Keens Born June 9, 2011 Loving my awesome guitar picking 100% Country Boy boyfriend Kenny !
RIP Daddy~ 01/24/1930-06/01/2007 I miss you !
Dont Think you Can .. know you can ~ Jeff Hardy

Christine,
Why don't you make your photos private and de-friend this girl?

Thank you everyone for their help, i wasn't sure how myspace worked, but at least i know what
the private account means. At least everyone cannot view it.

it's been 2 years years this girl needs to move on, if he wouldn't have died, i know she would have tried to marry him.
I will just pray for the next guy that gets stuck with her
Christine good luck,

She isnt on my friends list I hsve EVERY profile she has ever made blocked from my Myspace, Purerave, hoverspot and a few other places i am on , I suspect one of her former friends who is on my list maybe the person who got my photos to her, I cant prove it. Thankfully she hasnt bothered me or my now 22 yr old son in awhile but she has had some of her so-called friends harass me in the stores I go to and call me names and I jut dont have time to deal with ignorant teenagers who will beleive their friends over a 42 yr old adult who can prove the harassments, I dont play into her games anymore I ignore her, her friends and the local police ignore her too espeically when it comes to anything to do with me, I have considered a restraining order against her again but the time , effort and money is something I cant afford to do right now. trust me I know when she is (to quote DS Stefan age 9) talking smack about me, I just dont have time to play her games and she wants attention and she wont get it from me.

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~ Christine ~
Grammie to Trinity Lorayne Jean Keens Born June 9, 2011 Loving my awesome guitar picking 100% Country Boy boyfriend Kenny !
RIP Daddy~ 01/24/1930-06/01/2007 I miss you !
Dont Think you Can .. know you can ~ Jeff Hardy