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I have used the ignore list in the past. However, the problem I ran into was when someone on my ignore list posted, and then someone NOT on my ignore list replied to them, using the "quote" option, then I would see what the person I was trying to ignore, had to say. BREATHE!!! that was a mouthful. I don't know if this has since been changed or not, or if you will see this reply or not.
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I haven't used it because there really aren't any posters that I don't want to know what they post. There are a few posters that make me shake my head and I feel like I have to respond because their post is so outrageous but I don't want to ignore those posts. Then the other person has won! LOL
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One wonders if it's the same person or persons that are driven mad by your very sentence or are your posts met w/ a collective madness? For instance--I find some of your posts maddening, but not all, thus I do find some things you post to be of benefit and wouldn't want you on ignore. But, if the overwhelming majority of members found you consistently being causing chaos, then maybe it's YOU and not them. in the past I have found at least two posters that it didn't matter what they posted--to me it was offensive, hateful, ignorant, irritating or otherwise a nuisance; so I placed them on ignore. And just like the weather, people's attitudes, thoughts and opinions change--so, what I might find offensive today may not be the same tomorrow. Someone who posted something incredibly stupid today, might post something incredibly enlightening tomorrow....
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I don't use the ignore list, but when a thread goes off-track and starts resembling one of my teen's myspace dramas, I just stop following/reading it. There is so much good information and advice on this site- that is what I like to focus on
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I think the poster urnotar was the only person I put on my ignore list and that was wayyy back when. Since she got booted off, my ignore list then became empty. I would never do it again, though. I don't think anyway. I guess never say never. There isn't anyone here I would want to ignore right now. There are a few I have on my "watch" list..lol ... but that is only my own way of telling myself to be leary of them and try to stay away from engaging with them. I love truble's posts! She is incredibly smart, states her case in a very calm manner, with a matter-of-fact sense that I enjoy reading. Even if she disagrees with me, I listen and ponder what she has to say. I will revisit it, because I know she is not out to attack me, she is sincerely sharing her opinion in a smart, sensible manner. Maybe some here might take notes. The problem I have now with this place, is it was going so good for a long while. Then I noticed some of the old posters started coming back to the mix. Then the alias's started up, then all of a sudden the pack clique mentality began. It is almost like I can see YFB all over again. Do these people not realize that there are many of us who remember who were the trouble makers way back when? Further, 0bviously these people haven't changed enough for us NOT to know who they are. It is so apparent it is sickening. Oh well... some people are just very bored and have waaaayyy too much time on their hands. On another note, I noticed 2ndhand logged on recently. |
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ha...I forgot about that feature. I used it a while ago for someone..can't even remember who now. There's a couple I would detinitely like to use it for though, so thanks for reminding me about it.
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I have used the ignore list but then what is the point? I just have to read it, I don't have to live with it, I can skip over it just the same. I don't come here that much anyways, when this board first started up it was quite nice and light hearted. I enjoyed it. |
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allinaugust, this made me chuckle! And I doubt you're on anyone's ignore list.
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I have a bunch of people on my list. I trade coupons, so anyone who was on a bad trader list got put on it. And one poster here who drives me crazy.
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one person from a long time ago who was a troll. I was sick of reading their posts...just trying to do everything to tick everyone off. I soon found that someone would reply and then the post I didn't want to read would show up (as already mentioned) so I figured, what's the point
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I just skip over the ones who are a pain in the butt.
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okay Kellyjef, I am not stupid why do you find it so funny that someone only take enough peace in their life?? I know the so called joke is about me. Are we not mature enough to stop this silliness, what exactly is your beef with me. I asked you before and you did not respond. As some posters said if you do not like the thread, then skip over it, plain and simple no need to keep adding to the joke, someone posted it and then another and then you, and you think I do not know you are speaking of me. What is so funny about saying peace , does it truly bother you that much that you must make fun of it, so plmk and answer. Catherine
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I hope that is not what she meant. If it is, that is so incredibly sad and ridiculous that this BS is starting up again on here. I won't be around much longer if so. But, if it isn't, and she was being funny (as how I took it), I thought it was hilarious and very truthful. I just wanted to say something, because I wanted you to know how I took it and give you another spin on what she might have meant. I shouldn't be talking for her, and I am not trying to do that. I just wanted to try and make it better for you (looking at it in a different way, and maybe not directed at you). Okay, JMTC, probably means nothing. As LUV said, skip it, don't read it, plain and simple. |
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Oh no Kellyjef mean't it to be funny and is looking to start trouble. I was a member of another website and its againist the rules to post another website here, so I will not do that, however she did post today at that website, that I am getting on her nerves and she Kellyjef wants to so something about it. I emailed her and reminded are of some of rules of mycoupons.com, one being we will not tolerate any defamation or any destructive behavior mean't to damage a mycoupons.com members. Honestly I cannot understand how saying peace could be so upsetting to someone. Peace.Catherine
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Why didn't you take my suggestion to place PEACE in your signature line instead? It would save you a LOT of typing and wouldn't irritate anybody. It's completely up to you but if you really do want to make friends the way you said, then wouldn't it be a good idea to stop doing something that you KNOW bugs them? Just something to think about! |
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All this is absolutely true. Isn't it true that you have been BANNED MULTIPLE times from that other website??? (Don't worry, I would never violate MC's rules about posting other websites even though I'm sure people here would be interested in your history there.) Would you care to explain WHY you were banned??? Because THAT would explain why I (and MANY others) have a "problem" with you . Your constant "preaching" about "peace" when you have caused SO much dissension on that board is frustrating to say the least.
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I just don't see what is so irritating about having a word PEACE after every post.Its part of who she is. Its what makes Iluvlucy special in my book.Ya always know its her post when ya see the word PEACE in it.Kind of like a trademark. ![]() I would never use the ignore function. I think I would only use that function if someone was extremely spamming to death a board in which case their usually banned anyway. Now as far as "BALLS...don't have some? GET SOME!!" Thats another story. ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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I don't think that anyone should have to change to suit another. You do what makes you happy. If it means that some don't like you over a silly little word, then so be it. They obviously have issues much deeper than you removing a word could ever fix. But, I do not stand behind any trouble makers. If this is what happened on another board, as kelly said, please don't let it happen here. Same goes for the others that are pushing you. If you all have a problem, take it somewhere else.....that gives a damn and wants to have their message board clogged up with this kind of childish banter. |
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I don't use the ignore button, I just skip over posts I see that don't interest me. If a post offends me, sometimes I will jump in, sometimes not depends on what it is. There are a couple of people here whose postings really get on my nerves and I think they really have some nerve going off on people like that, but then a couple of days later they do it in a different post and I'm thinking, "yea, that REALLY needed to be said". It's all just a matter of opinion. As far as the PEACE thing, it doesn't bother me a bit, but there are plenty of other signature lines, a few photos/avatars and that type thing I haven't cared for, but each of us is an individual. I wouldn't post saying I don't like your avatar it annoys me or your signature line unless it was REALLY vulgar or offensive and I think the board would take care of that. I mean if we are going to start picking on individuals I'm sure each one of us has many faults that can be listed.
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Ignore? And miss all the fun???? Never... The drama on here is MUCH better than anything General Hospital can provide (even thought Laura is back now....) and where else can I go to get my "snark" on? Oh, there is that "place that shall not be named" but, we can't talk about that....
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Oh, there's still plenty of drama, but I've found it's good for my blood pressure to simply put the worst of the crazies on the ignore list. Some of the stuff they come up with is so whacked out, so in left field, so blatantly false and sick and twisted that I'm better off not reading their crapola. But I say hats off to you guys that are stronger than me and can read it all! LOL. |
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never used it, theres a couple I dont like very well but i never reply to anything they say or reply if they my post, actually I havent seen some of them around lately.
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TO all concerned, in all my emails and posts I have always used the word peace and for those you do not like to see it then fine just skip over it, I am not going to change who I am , everyone here as a right to their views. But I truly cannot see how saying the word peace would upset anyone, sheesh you should truly worry about more important things in life and not my usage of peace. Peace. Catherine
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Seriously! I didn't see where anyone mentioned you, your signature or anything like that. Why would you assume that anyone in this post was talking about you?? And to nip you in the bud: No, I'm not upset. No, I don't have an issue w/ you personally (I don't know you). I don't care how you end your posts. I simply found it strange that you would presume that any of this discussion was specifically about you...
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Oh no I am not paranoid at all , however Genichols posted she can only take so much peace in her life, and then KellyJef writes after the quote now thats funny , and then she admits that my peace is bothering her, so you are telling me they are not making fun or getting annoyed at seeing my constant use of the word, peace, seriously??? Catherine
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honestly, you never crossed my mind "hon".
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Catherine...I'm seriously NOT making fun at you. So let me get that straight from the start. I did have to say that I thought about you today. I was looking for some shirts in Target. I saw several "Peace" and peace sign tank tops and t shirts on sale in there today. Not sure if you shop Target or not, but just thought I'd mention it. You might like them. ~Lisa
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Caddylisa as you may know I have talked about my love for rock and roll music, my love for Robert Plant and Led Zeppelin, I have many tiedye peace shirts both me and mydd's also have them its the style we love and I have been wearing a peace sign necklace around my neck for years. Is life not hard enough with all the sadness in the world to keep saying the word peace, I say it because I mean it. Thanks for thinking of me. Peace. Catherine
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You have been a loser on these boards and that post/mindset just proves it. I didn't think you could be any nastier and yet there it is. Women can be women's worst enemies, you have more than proved it. Whatever your problem(s) are, you need help. You need more help than anyone else I're read about on here for a while. And you dare to make the comments you make without looking in the mirror. cpsfsisooi x2 |
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I don't think truble is all bad or always wrong--I just think that this election has brought out her ugly side...
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I feel like i am in a never-ending game of "pin the tail on the 'poster'" I wonder who will be the next target? ![]() Marilyn, I'll take truble ANY day over the trolls that show their ugly side ALL OF THE TIME (or at least under their fake user id). |
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WTH is all this banter about the fake IDs? You mentioned that Opal Dancing isn't who she says she is? Then who is she? Please tell us. Curious minds want to know. First of all, I don't see the point in someone having all these screen names/aliasas. What's the point of that? And furthermore, who has the time? What purpose does it serve? It's just very confusing to those of us who don't know what's going on. Just spill the beans and cut to the chase. Thanks. ~Lisa |
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Sorry it is confusing you. I will follow my own advice, and SHUT UP. Obviously I am being a part of the problem as much as the troublemakers, and I do not want that. HOWEVER, I am disappointed as the way this place is going to the shi*tter with all of the fighting, backbiting, abusiveness and out-right rudeness. I am a little ticked, because this is MY Place as well as so many others. These people (are you in a hole that you can't see the crap that is being done to others????) are making this place unbearable and ruining what was once a nice place to visit. I am, however, tired of partaking in these threads that turn out to only be a discussion about how bad it is here, or feeling like I have to stick up for others that are being picked on. It shouldn't be this way here. On the other hand, this is just a message board. I did without it for many years, and it doesn't play that big of a role in my life that not being a part of the community here would be a huge loss for me. There ya go, As you requested, that is the beans AND the cornbread for you. Last edited by ohhgodd; 08-30-2008 at 03:04 AM. |
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HOn we all have to try to get along and like caddylisa said we have to agree to disagree and then walk away. This has got to be a good place to come and vent for us ladies over everyday problems, that I am sure we all have in common one way or another. But to keep the anger going it will do no one good. Try to have a good nite, perhaps things will be better in the morning. Peace. Catherine
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I just love your attitude. You have a very peaceful night yourself, Catherine. |
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