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Old 01-30-2009, 02:50 PM
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I just found out that my 27 year old brother died this morning. Please pray for his 1 year old son who is now going to grow up without his daddy. My brother and his wife were in the process of seperating/divorcing because she is a witch (w should be replaced with a b) so I doubt as Tyler grows up that she will tell him about his dad. As soon as I can find the story, I will link it. It happened in Deleware
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Old 01-30-2009, 03:28 PM
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Old 01-30-2009, 03:52 PM
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Old 01-30-2009, 03:56 PM
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I'm sorry to hear of your loss. Do you know what happened? 27 is so young.
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Old 01-30-2009, 04:14 PM
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Old 01-30-2009, 04:19 PM
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Old 01-30-2009, 04:42 PM
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That's horrible! I'm so sorry for your loss and will keep your family in our prayers.
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I'm so very sorry to hear the news of your brothers death. I am sending prayers your way. God bless.
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Old 01-30-2009, 05:30 PM
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I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your brother. I hope that the witch will allow you to be a part of your nephews life so you can show him what a wonderful man he was and how much he loved him. Prayers being sent.
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Old 01-30-2009, 08:13 PM
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I just found out that my 27 year old brother died this morning. Please pray for his 1 year old son who is now going to grow up without his daddy. My brother and his wife were in the process of seperating/divorcing because she is a witch (w should be replaced with a b) so I doubt as Tyler grows up that she will tell him about his dad. As soon as I can find the story, I will link it. It happened in Deleware
op, you have only posted a few things, but it strikes me you say that she is a witch. Was she a witch when he married her? It was his choice to marry her and there must have been something there?

I will encourage you to support her at this time if you possibly can. A more emotionally stable mother is what your nephew needs now, not a family divided.

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Old 01-30-2009, 08:21 PM
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I am so sorry.

May sister was killed in a car accident when her girls were very young (ages 2, 3 & 5). Her husband played all kinds of games with us over the years - telling us we could have them for the night, then changing his mind at the last minute, etc. It was difficult to have a close relationship with them, but we perservered and now they are in their 30's and we are all very close. It's funny, they never mention the difficult times over those years - they just recall the times we took them on picnics, had them over for holidays, or just to our houses for a visit.

We would tell them stories about their mom - the youngest girl didn't remember her at all - and we reassured them of her love.

My heart hurts for you, but try not to be bitter towards Tyler's mother - it won't help you and it can only hurt your relationship with your nephew.

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That is so sad.

I'm so sorry for you, ishop2much. Thinking of you, and praying for you and your nephew.
Even though it probably sounds like a painful piece of advise to consider, deddlastt's suggestion sounds excellent to me. I'm sure you'd do anything for your nephew. It's probably the best way to continue a real relationship with him.
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Wow, that is devastating news. I am so sorry. Just know that we are here for you. Please let us know any little thing we can do to help you get through this.
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am so sorry for your loss.My brother passed away 3 years ago,its like you lose a part of your childhood that no one else ever shared.
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I am so very, very sorry. This is such tragic news.

I hope you and your family can get through this and come out the other side stronger than ever. What a tribute that would be to your brother, to keep him alive to your nephew through you and your family.

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Old 01-31-2009, 02:40 AM
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I'm so sorry for your loss. If it happened in the Northern part of Delaware and you'd like a copy of the local newspaper for any articles regarding it or obituaries I might have access to them and I'd be happy to send you a paper copy if you wanted it.
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Good Lord, that's horrible. I can't even imagine. I'm so sorry. His poor baby.
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I'm very sorry for your loss. I hope you're able to maintain a relationship with your nephew so, no matter what, he'll grow up knowing about his father.
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Old 01-31-2009, 08:52 AM
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Thank you all. I found the story online. Sorry I don't know how to link, but here it is.


Police identify Milford man fatally pinned by truck | delawareonline | The News Journal


As for his wife...... they were only married for less than 2 years. He married her way to fast, they had just been dating for less than a month, she stated she wanted to get married. We all told him to wait but he thought she was the one and the 2 of them went to Virginia and got married then came back and told us all. We all caught on to her right away that she was hiding something from him. Later to find out we think she had been cheating on him BUT my brother loved her for some reason and chose to pretend it wasn't happening. BUT it was hard for the rest of the family to pretend everything was normal when she told us at a family party while my brother was in the other room that she wanted to be a lingereie model at some party a local bar was having and on another occasion she wanted to try speed dating. After those comments were made my brother finally started to see the light BUT then she said she was pregnant. Throughout the pregnancy she played mind games with him, telling him the baby was his, then wasn't his. After the baby was born she would throw fits and tell him that she wanted a divorce because he payed too much attention to the baby, then she wanted a divorce because she didn't like his job (truck driver) MY brother quit his job to be closer to home BUT that wasn't good enough for her, when he was home every night she was complaining she had no "me" time. They seperated and then she would call him home and say Tyler needs a family so my brother would go back and it would just keep repeating. When he was home, she would change their cell phone numbers because she didn't want him talking to any of his family. She didn't want us around the baby because of my job (I work for Child Protection) I don't know what she was hiding that she wouldn't want us to see. The last any of us saw my nephew was in June and that was a disaster. They were seperated and my brother had Tyler and brought him to my dad's for a party and once she found out the rest of the family was there, she sent the police to the house several times to do a welfare check because my brother wasn't answering the phone (she had been calling every 1/2 hour) we told her he was fine but that's how she was. I could write a book on her, but I won't.

Fast forward to yesterday, since they were still married, obviously she was notified of the accident. Did she call any of us... NO. If my brother's friends, who as soon as they heard, just stopped what they were doing, left work and went to my dad's didn't tell him, we wouldn't have known until either my dad saw it on the news (if it was on the news) or saw it in the paper this morning. Her step-father, who knows my Dad came home from work heard what had happened and thought she had called my dad and when he found out she didn't HE called my dad. she told her step-father she didn't think we needed to know My other brother and I talked last night, and realized if we don't keep poking around and searching through the internet, we won't be told of any funeral arrangements or what her plans are. She doesn't like his friends so it's doubtful she will tell them anything either
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Oh my...how sad. For Tylers sake, I hope that you are able to be a part of his life!
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I'm so sorry for the loss of your brother Ed. I hope you and your family will be able to see Tyler as he grows up.
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What a horrible mess over such a sad thing.
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i am so sorry for your loss, and then have to put up with a sister in law like that. How awful. she sounds very vindictive. does anybody live close to her from your family so they can keep tabs on tyler?

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The News Journal will likely run the obit since its the biggest paper in this side of the state. It should if nothing else identify the funeral home - which you could then call to get exact details if they're not listed in the obit. My offer stands - if you'd like paper copies of the article or obit from the actual newspaper just let me know and I'll send you my copy (assuming it hasn't hit the recycle bin).
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