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I have delelted all the posts that I started, this was the bottom line for me this morning, with the post or thread I started about my son Tommy and that the fact that he got another piercing. I never thought that my discussions my personal life or talking about my family bothered some people here so much, I guess I was so wrong. I will say this there have been posts about other members childrens and I would never ever post something negative about someone elses child, nor could I care if someone here decided to post about their child or family each day to me the more posts the more the person is proud to speak of their child or any family members. Lately Kathytheshopper made alot of posts about her medical problems , was that too much also... I am totally sad and so upset and deleted all my posts. There have been some really truly nice and wonderful caring people here, while today reading what some wrote about me and my son was out and out cruel and vile and downright heartbreaking and truly sad... LIke the post about Bristol Palin I wrote so many times never ever to make fun of someone else's child and I listened to Devinmom and deleted the post I do not need members here poking or judging my son Tommy who again I am so sorry to have posted about him or be proud of him I guess I am not entitled to do that here.... So all my posts have been removed I am not looking for sympathy but just wanted to speak my views and sadly today when I opened up the board I could not believe the comments....Finally to whoever the poster was that said I was drinking when I wrote that post never go there for all that know me know how I feel about alcohol how terribly sad to say such a thing.. This board and the cafe can be so cruel I hope you all had a serious joke on me, not a joke not funny. Catherine
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Ultimate Member Join Date: May 2000 Location: Long Island New York Posts: 5,370 please pleaseI am begging for the 70/1 kelloggs cereal qpons for my sick son Thomas -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I need many many to stock up with a great sale he has many heart and stomach problems and only eats certain foods and cereal is so expensive his favorite is cracklin oat bran and we have triples so ppppppppppppleeeaasssee I am begging from God I need many of these coupons plmk your wishes and god bless peace anyone please help thanks and god bless peace ilovelucy420@aol.com __________________ in memory of my beloved beautiful brother Sonny who is now an angel in heaven ************************************************** ******************************************* Here we go again. You said you deleted all your posts.......once again, you do NOT follow through with what you say. He's 20 and has the money to get tattoos, piercings, rings, etc and yet he can't support himself? dl |
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| She's going to put it back on later when she calms down...Some people said some really nasty things about her son...I think that saying nasty things about someone's child is really hitting below the belt...No wonder she's upset... ~Lisa |
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| Hmmm, funny. I read all the replies, and saw nothing that was said directly about her son. We don't even know him...why would she bother putting it back later?
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I think if you put a post out there about your kid(s) you should be prepared for comments of different types. On a message board you are going to find people that will agree with you and disagree with you no matter what the topic. SHE posted it, so she should be prepared for the comments that go with it. Lets face it, snake bite piercings are a bit on the alternative side of things and I don't know too many "regular" jobs that you could wear such a thing. Unless you work at a Hot Topic or something on that side of things....I can't see my bank (for instance) hiring someone with "snake bites" as a teller or customer service rep...ya know? This picture is just an example, I have no idea what kind of piercing ILL's son has:
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| Looks silly to me, dont understand the need to have holes poked all over you. Saw a picture, dont know if photoshopped or not, had piercings in his/her tonsils.... Ick Oh or this one, why'd someone intenetionally try to look like... http://blozulfog.files.wordpress.com...piercings4.jpg O.o
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| It sure is....and it is my choice to not like it or want it for my kids.
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Thanks for posting the pic.It doesn't look as bad as what I had imagined.I was wondering how they would wear two. I would not want to have to kiss those things though. |
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I didn't see any nasty posts, just posts trying to figure out the original post, hehe! I think several of us were just confused. ![]() Now that the thread is gone, we won't be able to see anything.
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| Just going by what she told me...I don't see why she would make it up...I have seen for my own eyes what posters have said before about her son...I was sleeping when all of this was going on...posting, unposting, deletions, additions, etc...I can't keep up with it anymore... ~Lisa
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If your grammar was a little worse, I would think you were her.
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As far as seeing with your own eyes what posters have said before about her son....please provide pointers to what you're talking about. I have never seen anyone here attack children, that I can recall. That would really surprise me so I'd like to see it. cj/
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cl, she has used you to show that she has a friend(s) here at mc in her continued woe is me wallowing. Woe that she makes for herself, time and again. I don't remember one person on that thread congratulating her. That translates into, once again, woe is ill. If you didn't read it, then you shouldn't trust her to get the facts straight. And a big, huge shame on you for the name calling and nastiness. Disagree with anyone, dislike what they post or what they stand for, but you crossed the line. dl |
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OK, I probably missed a lot of this thread. I saw it early this morning when there were only a few posts. Then I got off the computer and went to get a few things from the grocery store. When I got back it was gone, so I really don't know what transpired in that time. When I saw it, no one was being mean to Tommy. They may have said they would never want their own son to do it, but they weren't being mean. I know one poster asked what kind of a job he had that he would be allowed to wear that stuff, but it certainly wasn't mean. I think Catherine just misinterpreted what was being said/asked.
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Deddlastt I cannot believe you would fine a post about me begging for a certain cereal for my son that is almost 6.00 a box. The piercings and the tattoos are all paid by him from his money his earns for working for my husband. As far as me begging for the coupons if you do not know me by now I love coupons and am always looking to save on a bargain so if I am given the opportunity to save money on cereal I will, why why did you need to go a find a post like that and post that, what was your point????. Its been a long day in thought about the original post about my son Tommy. Again I deleted it because it was going down really fast and was only going to get worse . I did it and took the advice of Devinsmom to do so. One person laughed another thought I have posted way too much about Tommy, another said this was a cafe for discussion, that a post like that should not be there, while another said to post the topic and be proud I must be drunk when I wrote it.. So for the record, first I did not know there was a limit to how many times I could post about my private life, whether it be me, my dh, or my children or my brother Sonny. I also did not know there were certain subjects I could post about and be proud. I did not come back to seek drama but to defend the fact that unless you have given birth to a sick child like Tommy, you will never know the feelings I have. From his first open hear surgery to 3 more and then all his stomach problems from lactose intolorent to Ibs to cealic disease. On a personal note he is currently studying to become a nutrionist for his severe stomach issues, he is 6/2 and only weighs 128lbs... He can certainly take the piercings out however I would rather think and hopefully feel people would judge the person he is inside which is caring loving gentle and respectable and a sincerely well rounded young man whom I love dearly. I will post the pictures from his visit to NYC tomorrow that he went with his girlfriend Katie when they visited the wax museum I need my dd Caitlin to help me as there are alot of photos. Okay thats it on the subject and sincerely thanks to many ladies to have said kind and sweet things and for the private messages very sweet to think of me... Peace. Catherine
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I didn't read any of the responses in that topic so I don't know what was said. There were NO responses at all the last time I saw the thread but your original post wasn't so much about body piercing as it was an open love letter to your son! You said you wanted him to know you love him SO MUCH and told him you're SO PROUD that he got pierced again, etc, etc, etc,. When I read it, I wondered why you didn't just tell him how much you love him or send him an email or write him a letter and hand it to him. Instead, you posted a personal message to your son Tommy on a public forum. Why? Is he a regular at MC? Was he even going to see it? No - you just wanted us to see it. I didn't respond because you and ONLY YOU uses this board that way and it was an obvious bid for negative attention - again. You wanted something negative to happen and that's why you posted it. And if nothing negative did happen, you would pretend it did - like you always do! You KEEP asking why other posters resent you. Why do you keep doing that? You've been TOLD by several posters, several times the reason they resent you is because you REFUSE to play by the unwritten rules everyone else follows. In addition to all your board violations (some written and DOZENS of unwritten ones), your newest 'thing' is to use this board as your personal Private Message service. First, it was letters to your DEAD brother, then it was loving messages to Kathy the Shopper and CaddyLisa, then it was an open love letter to your son. The rest of us have relatives and friends too and you're not any more sensitive or caring than the rest of us. We love our families too but what would this place be like if EVERYBODY here wrote multiple love letters to everyone in our lives - including our relatives that are gone? Unlike you, the rest of us have the consideration not to inflict constant love fests on the whole board. My intent here is NOT to bash you - it's to tell you AGAIN that you are causing your own problems. You asked and since you KEEP saying you don't understand, then this is to HELP you understand. You KEEP breaking all the rules and you've ruined this board for a lot of people. They're gone and I guess that's what's you wanted so congratulations but you'll never be able to run everyone off and the people that are left know you aren't the victim you keep pretending to be. But let's not forget to say PEACE in every post. Let's say it a million times because may be no one will notice that you aren't what you keep saying you are. HTH you FINALLY understand what you KEEP saying you can't comprehend. PEACE. |
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Opal plain and simple it is people like you that keep the bashing going, secondly I do not need your help and finally I have the right to post about my love for my son or my daughters all I want and my brother Sonny, Its does not matter that they are not members here or even read it, For me I read it and perhaps some other people want to read it, I am a proud mom and always will be a proud Sister no matter what, why why Opal does my posting about people I love bother you so much????. Peace. Catherine
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I didn't bash you and you're not a victim because YOU asked AGAIN what you are doing to make other posters not like you and why you constantly generate hostility. I explained it to you and obviously, you like and want the negativity. I don't care if you enjoy creating chaos - create it if you want to but enough with pretending you don't know the answer to the question you keep asking! You know why because you've been told why over and over again. You KEEP breaking all the written and unwritten rules and you like the reaction you get so just enjoy the negativity you wanted. And by all means, keep posting love letters to your dead brother if you think it makes you a good person! PEACE. |
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2. I, too, use coupons, however not to support my 20 year old son who has his "own" money for bodily decoration. 3. I merely pointed out that you hadn't deleted all of your posts, as you asserted. 4. I merely pointed out that you do not follow through on what you say, time and time and time and time again. 5. I know you have friends here. You point that out time and time and time and time again. 6. Refer to item 2. I had asked earlier why he doesn't support himself? Again you didn't answer. dl |
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Ever thought about shopping at Wal-Mart ?. I live in a tourist town and even our Publix doesn't change that much for cracklin oat bran . The very MOST I have ever seen it was 3.50 a box. and that was at Publix.. P.s Wal-Mart sells their own brand of this for 2.00 Or the name brand for 2.50 a box. I'm sure if your son eats this all the time the manager wouldn't have any problems ordering it by the case for you.P.s you might also think about some of your coupon trading friends to buy the oat bran and ship it to you rather than paying 6.00 / No way I would never pay 6.00 for cereal no matter how much my 20 Year old son liked it.. Likes it that much let him buy it.. Sure not like he can't eat something else other than cereal everyday for breakfast.Just making a suggestion. 6.00 - 2.25 = 3.75 u will save .25 and NOT have to beg for the coupons. Or if you like 2.50 - .75 = 1.75 U can get 2 boxes for same price as 1 box and don't even have to beg . *Sigh* I think sometimes people just don't see beyond the coupons ..*sigh* Oh well. If memory serves me right, don't most stores that triple limit you to 3 alike coupons ?. so at most you can only buy 3 at a time. Unless you take your whole family in and hand them 3 coupons each so u can rack up on the savings even tho there's a limit per person. Sorry I stopped using coupons years ago when people in this area would abuse the stores limits and use coupons that were not meant to be use in the way they were using them. So it was like having to put my whole life's history out there to justify using a coupon so I might be off track with this now.
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Ladies...you are attempting to apply logic and intelligence to a situation/mind of chaos and emotion. ( Those are the nicest words I could think of) Nothing is going to change because the party doesn't want to change and sees no need to change because she is getting everything she wants here.
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Sunsetbeach the cereal made by Kelloggs is Cracklin Oat Bran it never ever goes on sale so from store to store the price varies from 4.99 a box to .5.99 a box thank god lately we have had 1.00 off any kelloggs cereal which does help alot. As far as Publix is concerned I love that store they offer such huge savings and they offer so many wonderful coupon deals we have been to Florida so many times and each time I love love to go to Publix I also love that they sell the little individual boxes of g.mills cereals when we were in Key Largo in April I purchased so many 2.1. Thanks . Peace. Catherine
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Wow...ladies, how about just not reacting to the posts you have an issue with. Why the attacks and insults. I feel like I am in a high school gym class listening to a bunch of teenager talking about each other. I don't think there is anything wrong with everyone having opinions, but perhaps it might be a good idea to go back and reread some of the posts. Its actually kind of sad that a bunch of grown women feel the need to rip into each other and waste so much energy throwing around insults. I don't think we all have to be best friends, but to me it is very obvious that some posters seem to have a great deal of anger and hostility. Okay...feel free to rip me a new one .. going outside to enjoy a nice sunny day...
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I'm not quite sure why everyone is making a deal out of ILL posting about her family...isn't that what most people do at OFF TOPIC discussions? I know it is at the other 2 I read daily! I mean I've sat here and read about someone telling everyone how many times a year she does or I should say doesn't have sex with her BF a year and no one said a word about that! Can't get much more personal than that! I'll be the first to say I hate piercings and tattoos but if she wants to write that her kid got one what difference should it make but she should also be prepared for people to say they don't like them either. |
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I'm apologize ladies, but I really, really dislike dishonesty and lies and I think it's important to set the record straight. (And I didn't even respond to the "so proud of my son's piercings" post, so I'm sticking up for other people!). You can also use the "frickin' ignore button" if you don't want to read it.
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I didn't think moderators were supposed to post things like this..maybe I am wrong.
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